I have a friend who is going through some life changing decisions at the moment. We have most probably been in situations like that, and if you haven’t then you will. No doubt. Those decisions where you doubt yourself and your choices so fully that you lose sight of yourself and the correct path. Today I left myself this note in the mirror as a reminder. A reminder that as soon as you start trying to see yourself as you think other people see you -or indeed may see you – then you lose what it is to be you. Who gives a shit how other people see you? You need to be the person that people see, not a shady reflection of their expectations.